Want to manifest a divine partnership? Here’s how to attract a sacred partner for a conscious love relationship your soul truly desires. Watch the video or read this transcript.
There are a few different ways to describe conscious love relationships these – some people say sacred partnerships or divine partnerships – essentially it’s a way to describe a higher frequency connection in a love partnership.
I’ve seen a lot of people this year and last year in guidance sessions who were describing how they’ve met someone and there’s an energetic connection that they’ve never felt like this before and they’re confused about it. Often that is what leads to a higher consciousness loving partnership.
The challenging part is deciding or figuring out whether it’s a karmic connection because that energy of karma can feel like that too. Sometimes it is a repeating partnership that’s happened through many lifetimes and you’re feeling the connection – the remembrance of that. It could be a mixture of both, a bit of karma and a bit of a soul partner who you’ve been with through many lifetimes and you can only know by just moving forward and seeing what happens – letting it unfold but doing it with awareness.
Trust Intuition, Not Dating Advice
A problem can exist where you’re experiencing this but you’re applying the regular dating wisdom – the “wisdom” that is going around in society – and it just doesn’t mesh, doesn’t make sense. It’ll cause a lot of frustration and it won’t actually help you move forward in this relationship and could actually cause problems and make it stall or go backwards.
So that’s one of the things to be wary of, that dating books and so on may not apply to these kinds of relationships. Trust your intuition! There are other people like us who understand – it’s best to talk to people who understand rather than to talk to friends who don’t understand and are giving you old dating advice. Be careful who you listen to, and really trust yourself and your guidance.
Connecting to your guidance is going to be a big part of this relationship, because that will help you move through the ascension process and have the personal growth that will actually bring in this partner or partners as you go through higher and higher levels of frequency and vibration.
Vibrational Growth & Law of Attraction
What can happen is that you’ll attract a partner and then there’ll be a shifting growth frequency and you’ll slide up and if they slide up, you’ll keep connecting, but if they don’t, you’ll keep going and they’ll fall away. Then you’ll bring in another one and it will keep going like that. That’s how I describe it to my clients, it’s just an easier way to understand that it’s not so much personal but it’s more about vibration.
Start Working on Yourself
The number one starting point is working on yourself and the motivating factor for that would just be to feel good, because we want to heal the bits that don’t feel good. The wounds include childhood wounds, inner wounds, past life wounds and trauma that has occurred in your life. You can also look at shadow aspects of yourself and integrate those.
This healing is done throughout life – it’s not like you can achieve it all and then it’s done. Just keep working at it and your vibrational energy field will become clearer as you release more and more. This will help you magnetically attract the partner who is at the same vibration as you.
Super Attractor Guidance
I’m going to see what guidance my Star Team has. I’m using the Super Attractor deck and asking about personal growth: what we can do to bring in a high vibration partner?
This card says: “When I surrender my will to the care of spirit and the universe I attune my energy with an ever-present stream of wellbeing”. Surrender is a big part of this – it’s about working with your spirit team and not feeling alone in it, and by spirit team, I mean your higher self, your spirit guides, your archangels, your guardian angels – the higher parts of yourself.
Next card: “I trust that my powerful intentions combined with my faith are enough to allow my vision to become my reality”. Another big part of this is setting the intention that you wish to bring in a high vibration partnership. That is your biggest dream – you don’t want low-vibration partnerships anymore, you want a conscious loving relationship.
I’ve written a blog about this topic (click here to read), so you can look at the vibrational alignment that is required and tips about how to manifest this kind of love partnership. Essentially it all comes down to self-love. If you can achieve the self-love part, loving everybody else in your life is going to be way easier. We’re all here to learn self-love.
Next cards: “When I’m connected to spirit, I feel a sense of certainty, magnitude and ease that I’ve never known before” and “The universe has big plans for me and it’s time to claim them.” Often these partnerships are part of a Divine plan that has a purpose, which is usually serving the greater good. So one of the things you can do when you are setting an intention to call in your partnership is to say it is for the highest good of all. You can say: “Thank you spirit for bringing my Divine partnership to me for the highest good of all.”
Ask For Help
Now I’m using the Divine Abundance Oracle deck, which is another good deck to help us get into the vibrational alignment needed for this. This card fell: “Invite Help: Invite the Divine to pursue you. Seriously, just say ‘I’m finally ready, God pursue me’”. Again this is about inviting help from your spirit team and the Divine – they will help you connect with the person you’re meant to meet. In many of these cases, the people meet in interesting ways that are quite unique and fascinating – there’s usually a really good story. I know when I hear these stories, I can really tell that spirit has its finger in this and has connected the dots and helped these people come together.
Non-Attachment is Key
The next card says “Flow: Allow me, Divine, to move with the flow and respond with calmness and peace”. Going with the flow and listening to spirit and being open and allowing this to unfold with detachment or non-attachment is really important. Any vibration that is coming from fear, like fear of losing something and grasping, holding on tight, or worry that you’re never going to get it – any fear like that, which is lower vibration, is going to lower your vibration. So each time you come into that kind of vibration, shift out of it – do whatever you can to leave it behind and move into high vibration. I would choose to move into a state of gratitude – you can just focus on everything you’re grateful for in your life – just spend a moment doing that and that instantly shifts you into a different vibe that’s going to help you bring in more of the good things. Use gratitude to move out of fear.
Set Your Intention
Work with intention and affirmations: you can say as if it’s already happened, “thank you spirit for bringing my partner to me” or “thank you for helping me see my partner” or “discover my partner” or “find my partner easily”. Things like that – just be creative and think about it as if you’ve already done it or already achieved it
Follow Inner Guidance
The next card is an important part of it too: “Receiving: Every day it becomes easier to receive the highest Divine plan and to trust my inner guidance”. First of all, Divine plan – it’s important to recognise there is a Divine plan and you just allow things to happen – you allow them to come and you allow them to go, you don’t fight it with resistance.
Secondly, trust your inner guidance, which is really important. I recommend everyone does meditation regularly so that they can use that time to connect with their guides. It’s a perfect time when the guides can come in, when the mind is more calm, and reach you. The inner guidance is going to help you make the right decisions too, so it will help you steer away from people who are not right for you and find the right person for you.
I do feel that a lot of the partnerships coming together recently, the people couldn’t have not met – it is so obvious that they were brought together through situations to come into each other’s presence and feel the energy and then they knew it could not stop. This energy is puzzling to a lot of people – people can be in relationships already and then this energy felt is very different, and they’re confused like, “what do I do?” – it was unexpected, but at a higher level it is all part of the plan.
Ascended Masters Help Too
What happens on this path is that the guides will be helping you, but also ascended masters will come in at different times to help you to grow, to move out of different programming and beliefs, and to help you come to your full potential. Mother Mary is one of those ascendant masters who works with the Divine Feminine.
Practice Patience & Gratitude
I’m now using Mary, Queen of Angels oracle and as I’m shuffling, I am asking “what can you tell us from this deck?” I’m hearing “patience” – having patience for this process to unfold is really important. This card says: “Blessings: Today I count my blessings, small and large, and I notice the new gifts that come to me from God”. That’s really about gratitude – I feel like the gratitude part of this equation is going to help power you through it. It’s actually going to help you bring things to you because that vibrational shift that you have is really appreciating the beautiful things and then that feeling in you is going to attract more of that. Some people practice gratitude every day and they keep a gratitude journal.
Prayer & Intention
The next card is “Prayer: Instead of worrying, I pray about this situation to bring about real solutions”. The key here is “instead of worrying I pray” – and prayer doesn’t have to be religious, it can be a request to the Divine. If you can put into words what you truly, truly desire, that is forming an intention, and then express that and keep the focus on that – don’t get distracted. Part of the equation, again, is believing that you can receive that, so if we go back to the beginning of the video where I was talking about self-worth, self-love, self-esteem – working on all of those things will help you manifest the love relationships that you want.
Feel in Your Heart
The Star Team are telling me about feeling in your heart, coming into your heart, out of the mind and into the heart. Feel the bottled feelings of past relationships and let them out, let them go. Feel everything and don’t disconnect the head and the heart – feel, feel, feel. It’s really important, especially when we talk about self-love, we want to really be able to feel our feelings instead of disconnecting to avoid feeling them [read my blog I Feel It All].
Perseverance on the Path
Now I’m using the Soul’s Journey oracle and this card has come out: “Discipline: I can accomplish what I set my mind to”. This is about perseverance, you need to keep going with the intention you’ve set – a lot of people give up just before it’s about to be fulfilled. Also, it’s about continuing with this growth and not just shelving it and saying “I don’t want to do it”. Know that every time you do healing work on yourself it’s going to help you feel better in your daily life.
The “Blame” card has come out – this is interesting, this came up yesterday when I was doing an energy reading about the March full moon in Libra – partnerships! (watch here). I feel like this current period of ascension, we are letting go of the low vibration act of blaming others, and instead taking responsibility for our part in whatever’s happened. The card says: “I accept responsibility for my well-being” – it’s also about looking after yourself and not looking to the partner to look after you, rather “I am capable of looking after myself”. Codependency is something we can leave behind. I don’t think people consciously want to be in a codependent relationship but it can happen because of childhood wounding, so we need to become aware of that and work our way out of it. You can possibly change the dynamic of the relationship but you need to work on yourself to do that.
Triggers & Mirroring
When these Divine partners come together, they do trigger each other and this is to speed up the spiritual growth. So if you notice the triggering is happening or there’s mirroring or other stuff, it’s not like you need to throw the relationship out. (Of course, you’ve got to check whether it’s abusive or not.) It’s about looking at what needs to be healed within you, or at least a light shine on it, and then the next time you get triggered you may not react so badly or you may recognise it and say: “Ah! That’s a childhood wound rearing its head, I won’t react.”
Healing in Relationship
These Divine partnerships help you to grow in a much faster way, so often there is downtime as each individual works on themselves. The magnetism of the energy connection brings them back together. If the magnetism doesn’t bring them back together, the partnership falls apart naturally and each goes on their way. So there’s an element of trusting the whole system and not attaching to something with fear of loss, but just moving with the flow and letting it unfold.
You’re always working on your own path, working on yourself, coming into spiritual alignment with your higher self and authenticity.
Adopting a Higher Perspective
Now I’m using Whispers Of Love oracle cards, which have guidance for working on yourself in the context of love, self-love and romantic love. The first card is “Practice Compassion: See things from a fresh perspective”. Often in these high consciousness relationships you are asked to see things from a new perspective, in a different way to previous relationships, because it’s a different ballgame.
Forgiveness is a Necessity
This card is “Forgiveness: Nothing is gained by holding on to past disappointments”. It’s about letting go of previous relationships or even just parts of a current relationship where you’ve held on to emotions. Forgiveness is about clearing your energy. It’s not that you have to accept bad behaviour from people, but it’s about respecting your own energy body and knowing that what you attract is going to be affected by your energy field, so it’s in your own interest to do the forgiveness work.
Ah! I was waiting for this card to come out – this card is beautiful – “The Union of Hearts: A love connection defies explanation”. That’s what we’re talking about! Often when I have a session with a client, they can’t explain the connection with someone and come to me for help in understanding it. It does defy explanation and there are terms, as I was saying, like “sacred partnership” or “Divine partnership”. I even hesitate to say those and I just say each connection is individual and unique and it’s up to you to find out what it is, and to keep an open mind and let spirit guide you.
This card says “Love Makes the Difference: Love helps heal past hurts and provides a sense of security and self-worth”. When you are remembering a partner from a previous life and you’re meeting them again in this life, there is instant love there. It’s an interesting feeling, it’s like “I’ve always known you, but I’ve only just met you” – it does awaken a whole level of love that you haven’t really experienced before.
So let’s see is there anything for the individual to work on… what would we work on right now? “Choose Love: You always have a choice, make yours with love.” Choosing to love instead of choosing to fear. We always have a choice of love or fear and how we respond to things or how we see situations. Look for the love in the situation. If you are starting from a place of fear, just move into the love. Try to be aware of your thoughts and aware of your reactions before you speak them.
True Expansive Love
Last card from this deck: “True Love: This love is once in a lifetime”. Again, talking about that quality of connection that is felt in these partnerships, which is quite different. I don’t want to put this on a pedestal, because I don’t think it should be, but it’s more about clearing your system so that you can feel that love. Because you’ve cleared out all the hurt and the pain, you’ve worked on your self-love, your self-esteem and you know you deserve it, then you can bring in another person who has done the same work. Feeling that love being expressed fully energetically is quite different to traditional relationships.
Divine Feminine & Divine Masculine
This next oracle deck is the True Love Reading Cards and I like this one because it has the Divine masculine, Divine feminine and the distorted masculine and distorted feminine. So the difference is that we’re aiming to be Divine and not distorted! Distorted is a way of saying we’re not quite healed, we’ve still got programs running, conditioning etc. (If you’re wondering whether you are feminine or masculine, it is whatever energy is primarily dominant within you – we have both.)
The “Soulmates” card just came out – often people know the term soulmates and feel the Divine partnership is like a soulmate connection. That’s something that helps you recognise it’s a different kind of relationship.
The last card for this reading is “Abundance” – I made a video about that (watch here), it’s one of the things we’re working on right now, coming into the consciousness of abundance, which I feel is a necessity for being in complete Divine feminine or Divine masculine energy. Letting go of lack consciousness, coming into abundance consciousness, knowing that you deserve it, you’re worthy of it, and you can just let it come to you.
I’ve got a nice comment here from Onespacelove Podcast: “Beautiful cards in alignment with your messages, unconditional love”. Yes, it’s all about unconditional love and self-love – I mean if I said anything about this, it would be work on self-love, that’s the number one thing to do!
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Keen to learn manifestation and law of attraction techniques? Try this guidance to get you into the best vibration for manifestation success. Watch the video or read this transcript.
I’m using Gabrielle Bernstein’s Super Attractor deck. The first card is “As soon as I choose to see the light in the dark corners, I redirect my power toward what I want”. Very much about looking into your shadow aspects: it’s not about criticising them, it’s about taking them in as part of you and accepting them and that brings wholeness. When we are holding energies in our body or our energy body that are attracting things, we want it to be pretty clear. If we’ve got stuff that’s needing to be released, we should really work on that because what we really want to attract is going to be affected by that. So I always start with working on myself to bring what I want into my life. A lot of people go the other way around but I’ve learned it’s definitely worth starting from yourself and doing the spiritual work. (Clear out old emotions – read my blog about how feeling it all really works!)
The next card: “My ability to receive is measured by how much I practice good feeling thoughts”. Often we are focusing on what we’re fearful of or scared of what could happen that’s possibly negative, because we’re trying to avoid disaster or avoid embarrassment or shame or whatever it is. That is actually counterproductive to what we are wanting. Mindfulness comes into play here: if you can learn a mindfulness meditation that helps you to be aware of your thoughts and stop yourself from going into negativity. And then practice the alternative, which is gratitude being grateful for everything in your life and that brings in more things that you’re grateful for. That’s the vibration we want to be in so that we can attract the beautiful things in life.
These cards are flying out! I got two cards, the first: “My true safety lies in my capacity to align with the love of the universe”. I was just talking about trying to be safe and here’s the information that they want to give us about feeling safe truly, which is my true safety lies in my capacity to align with the love of the universe. The second card is: “When I’m patient, I let the universe do for me what I cannot do for myself”. We’re often thinking ‘why isn’t this happening?’ but what that actually is doing is bringing more ‘why isn’t it happening?’. If you’re in waiting mode, you get more waiting. So think about what energy you’re projecting out there so that you can really focus on the energy that will bring you what you want – it’s key for manifestation.
Next card is: “The universe has big plans for me and it’s time to claim them”. If you’re feeling like you’re not ready yet, just try anyway. You probably already know what it is that you want to do but the fear is stopping you or blocking you. Put that fear into perspective: it’s all about creating safety by avoiding something. Instead, think about what you could achieve through this dream or goal or action that you’ve already got in your mind and your heart and go for it – now is the time to go for it! (And that’s probably why you were drawn to read this manifestation article!)
Next card: “Spiritual alignment puts my manifestation into motion”. I always come back to that – spiritual alignment is number one and meditation does that for me. I always think if I can come back to that oneness within and with the divine from there I can erase the control, the grip the ego has on me and I can clear my mind and listen to my heart.
Whoa, another card flew out! “I heal the habit of fear and I embrace the habit of love”, which is what I just said. We’re wanting to always choose love over fear. Sometimes we need to shift ourselves into the love through some practice – the practice might be meditation, it might be a walk in nature – just think of something that helps you shift into that feeling of love and back to your true self. What makes you feel like yourself again? Maybe it’s a long hot bath or playing with your dog, there’s so many ways to do it.
They’re all falling on the floor tonight, but I’m glad as that means things are happening here with the energy.
Wow! This one says: “The universe powerfully responds the instant I realign with love”. Very similar to what we had before, but the messages keep repeating over and over again: align with love, align with the divine, step out of the ego, come into your heart. Don’t fear and step forward into action to create what you want. And if you need to do healing to bring yourself into alignment, do it
“I let an inner sense of quiet multiply each day as I strengthen my faith in the love of the universe”. That inner quiet can come from meditation – I know I keep banging on about meditation but it’s really helpful, really really helpful, especially for stress.
Last card from this deck: “I can do less and attract more”. Okay, I can do less and attract more is a very different way of thinking to what we all kind of believe, which is we’ve got to do more and more and more to get more. This is a much more simple way of doing things, letting the universe help you.
MANIFESTATION & DIVINE ABUNDANCE
This oracle deck is called Divine Abundance and it’s very good for coming into a space of allowance to manifest what you want in life.
Well that one fell out fast: “Liberation: the doubts and fears still come up, you don’t believe anymore that they’re you”. That’s the key thing here: understanding that your doubts and fears are not actually you. Your thoughts are not you, so if you come across fear just remember it’s false programming.
I hope that makes sense to you. Sometimes we need messages to repeat over and over again to remember them and ingrain them and bring them into practice for ourselves. I know I do, it’s been a long path of learning for me.
Next card is “Courage” – this comes back to what we were saying earlier about taking action. It says: “Let me be open to courageously taking the leaps that are shown”. Some of the people watching this will have an idea that they want to do but they’re having fear block them or stop them from actually going ahead with it. We’ve been getting the message strongly tonight to step away from the fear and step forward into your action plan. Take action: it may take some courage, but I think once you actually do it, there won’t be any fear, you’ll realise that.
For other people watching it’s a different scenario where you’re waiting to receive but we’re trying to get out of waiting mode and more into allowing mode, a slight difference in energy vibration. So for you guys, it’s going to be more understanding these lessons in your heart space and coming into a vibration of gratitude.
And this card that came out: “Ease: it’s easy for me to receive”, which is what I was just saying. “It’s easy for me to receive” is the space that we want to be in – when we are ready to receive what we’re trying to manifest. And for the other people who want to create something and take action, for you guys it’s about just stepping around the fear and moving forward.
Get into vibrational alignment with Divine love and bring your sacred union, divine partnership or conscious love relationship to fruition.
In early 2019 I was given a vision of sacred union partnerships lighting up a grid network on earth – it looked much like a telecommunications map of the world – each couple would emit a love vibration so strong that everyone nearby would have their own vibrations raised – I was being guided to shine my light like a beacon. My guides have given me the teachings described below, which can also be applied for soul growth and harmonious relationships in general.
10 WAYS TO GET INTO DIVINE LOVE VIBRATION
- Release negativity
Dig up any resentments, anger and unhealed emotions, especially about previous relationships, your Divine counterpart and this often difficult journey. Forgive so that you may move forward (see my post). Do the healing to bring yourself into balance – journalling is helpful to identify what needs to be addressed within.
- Boost self-worth
Value who you are, inside and out. Truly understand that you are enough to have what you desire: like attracts like. And know in your heart and mind that you deserve love, repeat the mantra: “I am loving, I am loved, I am lovable.”
- Focus on love
Bring love into your life by expressing your love everywhere. Start with self-love, accepting who you are completely and unconditionally – this will help you to feel unconditional love for family and friends, and for this life. Make this a daily practice and keep your focus on love. (We are all ascending to the love frequency, click here for my channelling on this.)
- Work through fears
You may have deep-seated, hidden fears about being in a committed relationship. Maybe you don’t feel you deserve love (see “Boost self-worth”) or perhaps you have abandonment wounds (research attachment styles, I recommend Thais Gibson on YouTube). Also, what I have discovered is that you can do loads of personal development work yet still that abandonment wound persists – it is past-life trauma that needs to be cleared via energy sessions (see my energy healing offerings).
Keep your thoughts focused on your desires, rather than your worries and fears. My guides kept on my tail to learn the Law of Attraction techniques and led me to read Ask and It Is Given by Esther Hicks. Manifestation is the way of BEing in higher dimensions. Learn it and practice it now! (watch my video here)
- Practice gratitude
Being grateful for what you have puts you into a feel-good vibration. Manifestation is very much based on vibration or frequency. You don’t need much to do this practice, for example, be grateful for your hot showers, clear blue skies, fresh fruit and the sweet fragrance of flowers.
- Align with joy
Much like focusing on love and gratitude, bring more joy into your life in whichever way that resonates with you. It might be spending time with fun friends, or watching rom-coms or stand-up comedy – whatever makes you laugh and radiate with joyfulness.
- Power of NOW
Ruminating over the past or worrying about the future lowers your vibration. Being in the present moment is liberating! Learn mindfulness meditation and read my blog about why meditation is important for your psychic abilities.
This is part letting go, part going with the flow, part trusting that the universe has your back and allowing your path to unfold. Anytime you feel like you are trying to control the outcome, remember to surrender. Esther Hicks and Abraham also teach the Law of Allowing – an important part of the manifestation teachings (my manifestation messages video and post may help you with this).
Ensure that you are open to receiving what is given and offered to you. Many of us are givers and will automatically reject things that come our way.
ARCHANGEL MICHAEL & DIVINE COUNTERPARTS
The path of individuals within sacred union partnerships is not for the fainthearted – it is a journey of huge transformation and growth, a part of the Divine spiritual ascension. The archangels have a big role in this, protecting and guiding each counterpart towards inner and outer sacred union, as my channelling here explains.